Tony Overbay on Sex, Love, and Addiction: Real Talk on The Blum Show
That part is never quite on equal ground. And that's what is the piece in there that once you have all that makes, for lack of a better word, a stick-to-itiveness or that long-term piece that goes on that makes marriages successful or fall apart, because you know the mind is nuts.
Ever wondered how addiction can twist the dynamics of love and relationships? On this episode of The Blum Show, Michael Blum sits down with counselor Tony Overbay to tackle the intricate web of sex, love, and addiction. The conversation dives deep into the murky waters of sexual and pornography addiction, revealing how these struggles can overshadow personal connections and lead to a spiral of shame and guilt.
Overbay shares his expertise on how open communication can serve as a lifeline in relationships affected by addiction. He underscores the necessity of leveling the playing field to ensure long-term relationship success, noting, 'That part is never quite on equal ground.
And that's what is the piece in there that once you have all that makes, for lack of a better word, a stick-to-itiveness or that long-term piece that goes on that makes marriages successful or fall apart, because you know the mind is nuts'. The episode doesn't shy away from tough topics like objectification and the impact of pornography on intimacy.
Blum and Overbay explore how triggers can lead to relapse and stress the importance of self-awareness in avoiding harmful behaviors. They even touch on historical contexts like concubines and how cultural norms around relationships have evolved. If you're looking for a raw, honest discussion that offers both hope and practical advice for navigating addiction and relationships, this episode is a must-listen. As Overbay aptly puts it, 'it's about bringing some awareness around what that story my brain is telling me'.
Tune in for insights that could change your perspective on love and addiction.