Balancing Protection and Freedom: A Parent's Journey in Recovery
The unexamined past becomes the future of the next generation. Dependence, addiction, and hellish living are passed on to the next generation with amazing accuracy.
Imagine being a parent in the midst of your child's recovery from Substance Use Disorder (SUD). It's a tightrope walk between protecting them and giving them the freedom to grow. In this thought-provoking episode of 'Siblinghood of Recovery', Angie Reno opens up about her own experiences with this delicate balance. She asks the hard questions: Who are we really protecting when we step into the role of protector?
Are we shielding our children from harm, or are we inadvertently passing down our own unresolved traumas? Angie doesn't shy away from these tough topics. Instead, she dives deep into the concept of intergenerational trauma, examining how our past can impact our children's future. She discusses the dangers of overprotection and the importance of finding a healthy balance.
With insights from addiction therapists and references to support groups like Al-Anon and Families Anonymous, Angie provides practical advice for parents navigating this challenging journey. This episode also touches on the significance of self-reflection and personal growth. Angie highlights the importance of making a fearless moral inventory, as suggested in ACA Step 4, and understanding the impact of parenting stress on both mothers and children.
By sharing her own story, Angie encourages listeners to let go of their fears and have faith in their children's ability to thrive. Whether you're a parent dealing with SUD in your family or someone interested in breaking cycles of dysfunction, this episode offers valuable insights and a message of hope.