Family Dynamics and Addiction: Insights from Kevin Petersen and Jay Staples
Episode Overview
Families need to adapt, not just the individual struggling with addiction. Setting boundaries and holding loved ones accountable is crucial. Avoid blame and shame; focus on positive changes. Practical advice on managing family dynamics like a business. Humour can help make serious discussions more approachable.
"You're not responsible for his addiction, but you are responsible for how you respond to it"
Family Matters with Kevin Petersen and Jay Staples is a must-listen for anyone dealing with addiction and codependency within their family. In this episode, Kevin and Jay dive into the tricky dynamics of family accountability in the context of addiction. Kevin, who recently took on a new role at Jay Walker Lodge, shares his experiences working with families and how crucial it is for the entire family system to adapt, not just the individual struggling with addiction.
Jay's humour and candidness add a light touch to the serious discussions, making complex topics more digestible. They explore the idea that while the addicted person has their issues, the family's response plays a significant role in recovery. Kevin's analogy of treating the family like a business where management needs to adapt to help a struggling team member is both insightful and practical. Jay adds personal anecdotes about his own recovery journey, highlighting how his family's changes impacted his sobriety.
The episode also covers practical advice for setting boundaries and holding loved ones accountable without falling into the trap of blame or shame. If you're looking for a mix of expert advice, real-life stories, and a bit of humour to lighten the mood, this episode has it all. So why not give it a listen and see how these insights can help you and your family navigate the challenges of addiction together?