Kevin Petersen

The Chronic Hope Podcast

Kevin Petersen

  • Guest Episode 20: Mile High Magazine with Melissa Moore

Guest Episode 20: Mile High Magazine with Melissa Moore

Monday 29th July 2024

Kevin Petersen discusses the pros and cons of cutting off toxic family members and offers practical advice for fostering healthier relationships.
15 minutes
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The Chronic Hope Podcast
Author:
Kevin Petersen
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Categories:
Family Recovery from Addiction
Sobriety Toolkit
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Nutritional Pathways to Recovery
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Healing Family Ties: Kevin Petersen on Mile High Magazine

Episode Overview

  • Cutting off toxic family members can be necessary in severe abuse cases.
  • Temporary disengagement can aid in self-healing.
  • Setting boundaries is crucial for healthy relationships.
  • Re-engaging with family can foster healing and growth.
  • Professional help is valuable for facilitating difficult conversations.
If you don't deal with it, it's going to come out sideways
In this episode of Mile High Magazine, host Melissa Moore welcomes Kevin Petersen, the founder of Chronic Hope Institute and a licensed marriage and family therapist. Kevin dives into the complexities of family dynamics and the controversial topic of cutting off toxic family members. He references a New York Times article discussing whether cutting ties with family can be therapeutic and provides a nuanced perspective on the matter.
While acknowledging that in cases of severe abuse, cutting off is necessary, Kevin emphasises the importance of temporary disengagement for self-healing rather than permanent estrangement for most situations. He draws parallels between detoxing from substances and taking a break from unhealthy family interactions to gather one's thoughts. Kevin also stresses the significance of setting boundaries and re-engaging with family to foster healing and growth.
He shares his experiences working with adult families who seek therapy to resolve long-standing issues, often triggered by their own parenting challenges. The conversation highlights the importance of accountability, empathy, and communication in family therapy. Kevin's practical advice includes doing individual work first, understanding one's goals, and seeking professional help to facilitate difficult conversations. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with family conflicts and seeking healthier relationships.