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Rosie C – How did we overcome reluctance to make amends?
Rosie C – How did we overcome reluctance to make amends?
Rosie C – How did we overcome reluctance to make amends?
Sunday 23rd February 2025
Rosie C shares her journey of overcoming fears in making amends in AA, offering practical advice and heartfelt reflections for anyone on a recovery path.
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Episode Overview
- Facing fears about making amends is common but manageable.
- Writing a detailed harms list can reveal behaviour patterns.
- Differentiate between self-will and God's will for better guidance.
- Seek consent before making amends to avoid overwhelming others.
- Focus on actions rather than outcomes when making amends.
I had the choice, make this amends or don't. Go back to drinking or don't.
Rosie C takes the stage in this episode of the SoberQ podcast, opening up about her journey through the challenging steps of making amends in Alcoholics Anonymous. Rosie shares her initial fears about steps eight and nine, worried that facing those she had harmed might push her back to drinking. But with the guidance of her sponsor and the support of her AA community, she found the courage to move forward. Rosie's story is one of hope and transformation.
She explains how writing a detailed harms list helped her identify patterns in her behaviour and differentiate between living life on self-will versus God's will. This process gave her the strength to believe that change was possible. Her sponsor's advice to bring God into the amends process and focus on her actions rather than the outcome was pivotal. Rosie emphasises the importance of asking for consent before making amends and being clear about the specific harm caused.
This isn't about unloading guilt but about genuinely changing behaviour and seeking to make things right. The episode is filled with practical advice and heartfelt reflections that can resonate with anyone on their recovery journey. If you've ever struggled with the idea of making amends, Rosie's experience offers valuable insights and encouragement. So, why not take a moment to listen and find some inspiration for your own path to recovery?