Cath's Journey: Making Amends to Family in Recovery
Episode Overview
Cath made her first amends to her family. She followed guidance from her sponsor and the big book. Financial amends were made where necessary. Challenges arose when making amends to her father with dementia. Honesty and openness were crucial in her process.
It was more than just a sorry, you know, it was that I would not repeat those behaviours.
In this episode of the SoberQ podcast, Cath shares her heartfelt journey of making amends to her family as part of her recovery process. With a focus on Step 9, she opens up about the emotional and practical steps she took to mend relationships with her loved ones. Cath begins with her mother, detailing the specific harms she addressed and the sincere apology she offered.
Her story continues with her brother, where she not only apologised but also made financial amends. The challenges of making amends to her father, who had dementia, are poignantly discussed, highlighting the complexities of such situations. Cath also touches on the amends made to her uncle and aunt, showing a consistent approach guided by her sponsor and the big book.
A particularly touching moment is when Cath decides to be completely honest with her mother about a financial harm she hadn't previously disclosed. This episode is a testament to the power of honesty, humility, and the courage it takes to make amends. Whether you're in recovery or supporting someone who is, Cath's story offers valuable insights and encouragement.