Healing Bonds: The Art of Making Amends in Early Recovery
Making amends is more than offering an apology. Amends are about repair, about fixing what we broke and repaying what we stole or borrowed and, in the process, clearing away more and more of the wreckage of our past.
Imagine trying to mend the bridges you've burned during your struggle with addiction. It’s no easy feat, but it's a crucial step on the road to recovery. In this heartfelt episode of 'Recovery Road', host William C. Moyers dives into the challenging yet vital process of making amends, drawing wisdom from Hamilton B.'s book, 'Twelve Step Sponsorship: How It Works'.
Moyers breaks down the Ninth Step, which focuses on face-to-face relationship repair, and explains why this step is more than just saying 'sorry'. It’s about taking concrete actions to fix the damage, repay what was taken, and clear the wreckage of the past. He discusses the pain and discomfort that often accompany this step, but also the immense spiritual growth and ego deflation that come with it.
Moyers shares practical principles and guidelines for making direct amends, the critical role of a sponsor, and the importance of accountability. He also delves into the potential consequences of making amends and stresses the value of doing the right thing, regardless of the outcome. Whether you’re a sponsor or a sponsee, this episode offers invaluable insights and inspiration for anyone ready to face their past mistakes and repair essential relationships.
Tune in to 'Recovery Road' for a transformative journey towards healing and growth.