Love and Sobriety: Balancing Relationships in Recovery
But why am I going to dilute my margarita and or, yeah, ruin my beer, hang on a second. And I'm like I'm not eating market sushi. I want like real sushi, like yeah, anyway, this shouldn't even be in the podcast, that's okay. Right, is that I see something on the other side of the sadness.
Relationships can be tricky at the best of times, but add recovery into the mix, and you've got a whole new level of complexity. In this episode of 'A is for Alcoholic', hosts Jerry and his co-host open up about the rollercoaster of dating and maintaining relationships while staying sober. They tackle the big questions: How do you start a relationship in recovery? What happens when it ends?
The hosts share their personal stories, shedding light on the emotional highs and lows they've navigated. They also discuss the importance of honesty and the pitfalls of trying to mold yourself to fit someone else's expectations. One standout piece of advice is the often-mentioned guideline of waiting a year before jumping into dating when you're newly sober. They explain why this can be a game-changer for your emotional health.
Throughout the episode, Jerry and his co-host emphasize that while sadness, anger, and pain are inevitable, you have a choice between resentment and gratitude - but never both. The conversation is raw, real, and filled with practical tips for anyone grappling with love and sobriety. Whether you're in recovery yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights into balancing relationships and personal growth.