Allies in Recovery
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Partner CRAFT: The Hokey Pokey of Reward
Partner CRAFT: The Hokey Pokey of Reward
Partner CRAFT: The Hokey Pokey of Reward
Saturday 28th December 2024
Explore the complexities of rewarding good behaviour and managing intimacy in relationships affected by addiction with Isabel and Kayla.
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Episode Overview
- Balancing rewards and natural consequences is crucial in relationships affected by addiction.
- Intimacy should be a genuine reward, not forced or insincere.
- Children's safety and well-being must always be a priority.
- Mutual dependence in relationships requires careful management.
- Planning and preparation can help manage stress and improve outcomes.
It's not simple. You know, it's not like, oh, you're the Dalai Lama, and you're going to be able to just move through this peacefully.
In this episode of 'Coming Up for Air', hosts Isabel Cooney and Kayla Solomon tackle the tricky topic of rewards within a partner relationship when dealing with substance use disorder (SUD). Ever wondered how to balance intimacy and the safety of your children when your partner is struggling with addiction? This episode dives into these complex dynamics, offering personal stories and practical advice.
Isabel shares her experiences with her ex-husband's substance use and the challenges of raising children in such an environment. Kayla discusses the importance of mutual dependence and how decisions made by one partner directly impact the other. The episode highlights the concept of 'the Hokey Pokey of Reward' – the dance of rewarding good behaviour while managing the natural consequences of negative actions.
They also touch on how intimacy can be a reward but must be handled carefully to ensure it remains genuine and beneficial for both partners. By the end, you'll have a deeper understanding of how to navigate these sensitive issues, armed with practical tools and heartfelt stories. If you're looking for guidance on managing a relationship complicated by addiction, this episode is a must-listen.