Parenting the Teenager: X-Ray Goggles - Ep161Parenting the Teenager: X-Ray Goggles - Ep161
Through a Therapist's Eyes Podcast
Parenting the Teenager: X-Ray Goggles
1:08:23•18 Oct 2021
Parenting Teens: Seeing Beyond the Surface with Chris and Cortney
“A parent needs to develop what I believe and call x-ray goggles, meaning you have got to see through a lot of the crap that you see with your kids in their attitude, their sassiness- I mean the girls screaming at the top of her lungs. It is, instead of reacting to the behavior, minister, to the pain underneath.”
Ever wondered what’s really going on in the mind of your teenager? In this episode of 'Through a Therapist’s Eyes', hosts Chris Gazdik and Cortney take off their therapist hats and speak from the heart as parents. They dive deep into the rollercoaster world of raising teenagers, sharing personal stories and professional insights to help you navigate these turbulent years.
One of the standout concepts they discuss is Chris's idea of 'x-ray goggles'—a metaphor for looking beyond your teen's surface behavior to understand the underlying emotions and struggles. It’s all about empathy and effective communication, key tools in bridging the gap between you and your teen. Chris and Cortney also explore the Love and Logic approach to parenting, a method that encourages setting clear boundaries while maintaining a loving relationship.
They highlight the importance of physical touch in fostering emotional connections, even during those times when your teen seems to push you away. Whether you're a parent feeling overwhelmed or someone looking to better understand adolescent behavior, this episode offers a blend of heartfelt advice and practical strategies. Tune in for an engaging discussion that might just change the way you see your teenager.
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