Ghosting Dilemmas: Reconnecting with Honesty and Care
I'd love for you to follow up with me after this and tell me what the reason is, because you know, like, if the initial spark wasn't there and like he was a, he was kind of a butthole or he didn't treat you very nice on a date like, that's a good reason to dip on somebody, or, if you didn't like his personality, that's another great reason you know to like to to just back off.
Ever found yourself wondering how to reconnect with someone you once ghosted? In this episode of 'Lay It On Me', Noel Thomas tackles this tricky question from a listener named Hayden. Hayden's dilemma is all too familiar in today's dating world: 'How do I get the attention back from a guy I previously ghosted?' Noel doesn't shy away from the tough parts. He dives into why people ghost in the first place and stresses the importance of honest communication.
It's not just about reaching out; it's about understanding your own reasons and being upfront with the other person. Noel also touches on how dating apps have changed the game, making ghosting more common but also more complex. He offers practical advice on evaluating whether reconnecting is the right move and how to approach it with care. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the murky waters of modern dating and relationships.
With Noel's blend of humor and heartfelt wisdom, you'll find guidance and maybe even a bit of laughter along the way.