The Refuge Ministry
The Refuge Ministry
Necessary Endings (Archive - Episode 2)
Necessary Endings (Archive - Episode 2)
Necessary Endings (Archive - Episode 2)
Tuesday 3rd September 2024
West Thompson and Austin Hill discuss the tough choices around setting boundaries and ending relationships when faced with harmful behaviour.
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Get the buttons here!Setting Boundaries: When Forgiveness Isn't Enough
Episode Overview
- Setting boundaries is crucial when dealing with repeated harmful behaviour.
- Forgiveness doesn’t mean tolerating continuous harm.
- Categorise behaviour to make informed decisions about relationships.
- Prioritise your well-being while holding space for grace.
- Most people are not inherently evil but may exhibit harmful behaviours.
Sometimes the only way forward is to end the relationship.
In this episode of Relational Recovery, hosts West Thompson and Austin Hill tackle the challenging topic of 'Necessary Endings'. They dive into the often misunderstood concept of setting boundaries and ending relationships, especially when dealing with 'foolish' behaviour. Drawing from Proverbs and personal experiences, they discuss the importance of recognising when someone’s actions are consistently harmful and how to respond in a way that prioritises your well-being without compromising your values.
West and Austin explore the nuances between forgiveness and enabling, emphasising that while forgiveness is crucial, it doesn’t mean tolerating repeated harmful behaviour. They introduce the idea of categorising people as wise, foolish, or evil based on their actions and intentions. This framework helps in making tough decisions about who to keep in your life and who to distance yourself from for your own mental health.
The hosts share anecdotes about their own struggles with these decisions, providing a relatable and compassionate perspective. They stress that most people are not inherently evil but may exhibit foolish or harmful behaviours that necessitate boundaries. The episode is rich with practical advice, biblical references, and heartfelt reflections, making it a valuable listen for anyone grappling with difficult relationships. If you’ve ever felt torn between forgiving someone and protecting yourself, this episode offers clarity and support.
It’s a gentle reminder that it’s okay to prioritise your own well-being while still holding space for grace and forgiveness. Tune in to gain insights and strategies for navigating these complex emotional landscapes.