Dr. Timothy J Golden: Healing Men's Hidden Wounds
So you create a new life, you create a new reality, you create a new norm, and this is how it's supposed to go. Because David wasn't willing to give up any ground. Is that when you allow someone to infiltrate and break your boundaries, then they can pummel your city, they can take over, they can dominate, they can dictate the conversation, they can dictate how things are supposed to go- their way and not your way. It doesn't show weakness, it doesn't make you look weak.
Men often suffer in silence, especially when it comes to emotional abuse. In this episode of Patricia E Adams Live, Dr. Timothy J Golden, a professor of philosophy at Walla Walla University, opens up about his own journey through emotional trauma. Dr. Golden dives into the societal pressures that force men to bottle up their feelings and the damaging myths that perpetuate this silence.
He stresses the importance of self-care and creating a new reality where men can openly discuss their emotional struggles. One of the standout moments is his explanation of the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. According to Dr. Golden, you can forgive someone without necessarily reconciling with them, a concept that offers a fresh perspective on dealing with past hurts.
He also touches on the historical biases in American courts that have affected the credibility of men's stories, particularly in cases involving white women. This episode isn't just about highlighting problems; it's about offering solutions and hope. Dr. Golden encourages men to break their silence and speak out, helping to shift cultural norms around male vulnerability. The episode wraps up with an empowering message: healing starts with choosing yourself and creating a new reality.
If you're ready to take the first step toward emotional healing, this episode offers both practical advice and heartfelt encouragement.