Brianne Davis
Brianne Davis
Lupe: As a Gay Man I Had Internalized Homophobia Until I Was 59
Lupe: As a Gay Man I Had Internalized Homophobia Until I Was 59
Lupe: As a Gay Man I Had Internalized Homophobia Until I Was 59
Monday 20th June 2022
Join Brianne Davis as Lupe shares his journey of overcoming internalized homophobia and finding acceptance in 'Secret Life'.
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Get the buttons here!Lupe's Journey: Embracing Identity and Overcoming Internalized Homophobia
I found a place of comfort and security that I was not going to be abandoned, I was not being thrown away. When I walked in, I was terrified, and I remember sitting in the chair and like I just couldn't stop crying.
Imagine growing up in a culture where being 'macho' is everything, but your true self doesn't fit that mold. In this episode of 'Secret Life', Brianne Davis sits down with Lupe, a Mexican immigrant who spent decades grappling with internalized homophobia. Raised in a family that moved to Washington State in the early '50s, Lupe faced immense pressure to conform to traditional masculine ideals.
This struggle was compounded by his dark skin and a yearning for an older white partner, which he linked to his unresolved 'daddy issues'. For most of his life, Lupe hid his true identity, but his journey through Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) helped him strip away these old beliefs. He discovered more about himself, learned to embrace his sexuality, and found a supportive community that accepted him for who he is.
The episode covers heavy topics like shame, self-love, and the intersection of cultural beliefs with LGBTQ+ identity. Yet, it also offers hope and inspiration. By sharing his story, Lupe sheds light on the power of acceptance and community support in overcoming deep-seated fears. Whether you're struggling with internalized shame or know someone who is, this episode is a heartfelt reminder that it's never too late to find your true self.