Lionel's Sobriety Journey: Navigating Identity and Recovery with Kyle Rapps
It's like we do Hypodescent, it's the one drop rule where it's like, everywhere else, you can be everybody else, like they're going to look at you, phony, typically and sort of like you know.
Ever wondered what it takes to stay sober for 14 years? In this episode of 'Sobersplain', host Kyle Rapps sits down with Lionel, a man who has done just that. Lionel's story is not just about sobriety; it's a rich tapestry woven with threads of cultural identity, personal growth, and resilience. Growing up as a self-proclaimed nerd in Bed Stuy, Brooklyn, and being the son of Nigerian and Panamanian immigrant parents, Lionel faced unique challenges.
He opens up about the complexities of being multiracial in America and how the one-drop rule has shaped his experiences.
One of the most striking moments in the conversation is when Lionel says, 'It's like we do Hypodescent, it's the one drop rule where it's like, everywhere else, you can be everybody else, like they're going to look at you, phony, typically and sort of like you know.' This raw honesty sets the tone for an episode filled with thought-provoking insights.
Kyle and Lionel also bond over their shared experience of being black and sober, discussing how recovery tools have helped them navigate anxiety around the election, COVID-19, and relationships. They dive into the importance of community in recovery, offering practical advice on how to build a supportive network. The conversation doesn't shy away from the nitty-gritty of dating while sober either. Lionel shares his approach to intentional dating and how he filters out superficial connections to find meaningful relationships.
If you're looking for an episode that combines heartfelt stories with actionable advice, this one's for you. Tune in to hear Lionel's inspiring journey and gain some valuable insights into the world of sobriety and self-discovery.