Why Karilyn Ivers Tracy is Shifting the Conversation from Abuse to Healing
You cannot solve a problem by talking about the problem. You can only solve it by talking about the solution.
Feeling overwhelmed by constant discussions about abuse? In this eye-opening episode of 'Your Partner’s Addiction', Certified Life Coach Karilyn Ivers Tracy shares why she's decided to steer her content away from abuse and domestic violence. Karilyn opens up about how the media's focus on the Gabby Petito case made her realize that talking about abuse was taking a toll on her own well-being. Negative comments on her Instagram post further pushed her to reconsider her approach.
She felt drained and stuck in a cycle of resistance, which wasn't helping her or her audience. This episode takes a transformative turn when Karilyn recounts attending a live event with Esther Hicks and Abraham. There, she learned that focusing on problems only amplifies them. Instead, the key to moving forward is to concentrate on solutions. For Karilyn, this means teaching people to trust themselves, set boundaries, and find emotional freedom.
She believes that the root cause of staying in abusive situations often stems from being out of alignment with one’s true self, a misalignment frequently rooted in childhood programming. Karilyn encourages listeners to become aware of their ingrained patterns and adopt new, healthier ways of thinking. She emphasizes that healing is an ongoing process requiring consistent effort and support. She herself continues to be coached and work on her own healing journey. Her ultimate goal?
To empower her listeners to take control of their own lives and healing processes. Karilyn also advises unfollowing social media accounts that don't uplift you, even if it means unfollowing her. She believes that experiencing a partner's addiction can be a catalyst for profound personal growth and healing. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to shift their focus from problems to solutions, and to reclaim their sense of self.