Unseen Relationship Sabotage: Dr. Margaret Paul's Guide to Healthier Connections
The first and most powerful way that you might be ruining your relationships is to take no responsibility for your own feelings.
Ever wondered why your relationships seem to falter despite your best efforts? Dr. Margaret Paul, renowned author and clinical psychologist, sheds light on this puzzling issue in her Inner Bonding Podcast episode, 'How You Might Be Ruining Your Relationships'. Dr. Paul kicks off by introducing the powerful Inner Bonding self-healing process, which helps individuals learn to love themselves and connect with their higher guidance to access love, truth, and wisdom. In this episode, Dr.
Paul discusses how neglecting to take responsibility for one's feelings can be a major relationship wrecker. She points out that many of us lack role models who demonstrate how to handle our emotions responsibly, leading to behaviors like caretaking—a subtle form of control that often backfires by creating distance and frustration. Dr. Paul also delves into other control tactics such as resistance and withdrawal, explaining how these actions can gradually erode the foundation of a relationship. The key takeaway?
Becoming aware of self-abandonment and controlling behaviors is crucial. Dr. Paul emphasizes the importance of shifting one's intent towards learning to love oneself. By practicing inner bonding and seeking guidance from a higher power, individuals can heal their wounded selves and foster genuine connections with others. This episode offers valuable insights and practical advice for anyone looking to improve their relationships and practice self-love.
Tune in to this enlightening episode of the Inner Bonding Podcast to start your journey towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships.