Danish Bashir

Heal from within after Narcissistic Abuse with Danish

Danish Bashir

  • How to defeat a Narcissist in any argument

How to defeat a Narcissist in any argument

Friday 5th July 2024

Learn practical strategies to win any argument with a narcissist from psychologist Danish Bashir in this eye-opening episode.
11 minutes
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Heal from within after Narcissistic Abuse with Danish
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Danish Bashir
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Mastering Conversations with Narcissists: Win Every Time

Episode Overview

  • Predict their moves like a chess game.
  • Focus on their motives, not just facts.
  • Use their traits against them for leverage.
  • Keep conversations goal-oriented.
  • Regulate your emotions to maintain control.
You can't fight them with just facts. They don't care. They are liars. They are totally delusional.
Ever found yourself trapped in a conversation with a narcissist and wondered how to come out unscathed? In this episode of 'Heal from within after Narcissistic Abuse with Danish', Danish Bashir, a seasoned psychologist and narcissistic abuse recovery professional, offers practical strategies to win any argument with a narcissist. Forget the typical advice of avoiding conversations altogether; sometimes, you just can't escape them.
Whether you're co-parenting or dealing with a narcissistic family member, Danish has got your back with actionable steps to outsmart them. The episode kicks off with the analogy of a chess game, emphasising the importance of predicting their moves and understanding their true intentions. Narcissists thrive on manipulation and control, so knowing their game plan is crucial. Danish explains that you can't fight them with facts alone because they are often delusional and will deny evidence.
Instead, he advises focusing on their motives—are they trying to make you angry or sad? By recognising their tactics, you can choose not to react emotionally, which throws them off balance. One key strategy is to use their own traits against them. If they are image-focused, how can you use their fear of losing face to your advantage? If they're driven by power, how can you give them the illusion of control while achieving your own goals?
Danish also stresses the importance of goal-oriented conversations. Don't waste time trying to change their perspective; instead, go in with a clear agenda and know when to stop. This episode is packed with practical advice and real-life examples that make it easier to handle those unavoidable confrontations with narcissists. If you're tired of feeling powerless in these interactions, this episode is a must-listen. Ready to take control and turn the tables?
Dive into this episode and arm yourself with the knowledge to win any argument with a narcissist.