The Illusion of Happiness: Breaking Free from Codependency
Episode Overview
Happiness for codependents is often just the absence of pain. Address trauma, shame, and loneliness before seeking happiness. Narcissists manipulate codependents into believing they are happy. Building self-love is crucial for genuine happiness. Understanding true happiness requires breaking free from toxic relationships.
Happiness is not possible for a codependent; it's just the absence of pain.
In this eye-opening episode of The Self-Love Recovery Podcast, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed, LCPC, CADC, tackles the tricky concept of happiness for those suffering from Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD), also known as codependency. Ross explores how individuals with SLDD often mistake the mere absence of pain for genuine happiness due to their entanglements with narcissists who manipulate and gaslight them. He emphasises the need to address deep-seated issues like trauma, shame, and loneliness before one can truly seek happiness.
Ross draws from his extensive experience and personal journey to provide a compelling narrative on why codependents need to build self-love first. His unique perspective sheds light on the distorted reality many codependents live in, making this episode both informative and deeply relatable. If you've ever felt trapped in a cycle of seeking approval from toxic relationships, this episode will resonate with you. Ross's empathetic approach and expert insights offer hope and practical advice for anyone struggling with codependency.
Tune in to understand why the pursuit of happiness might be an illusion for some and how to break free from these destructive patterns.