Bobbie Goldie
Bobbie Goldie
Growing Up With An Alcoholic Mother
Growing Up With An Alcoholic Mother
Growing Up With An Alcoholic Mother
Wednesday 20th November 2019
Listen to Bobbie Goldie's story of growing up with an alcoholic mother and the lessons she learned about boundaries and self-acceptance.
30 minutes
Raw
Honest
Compassionate
Thought-provoking
Empowering
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Bobbie Goldie
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Categories:
Sobriety Toolkit
Empowering Recovery Journeys
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Parenting & Children
Comedic Journeys
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Get the buttons here!Bobbie Goldie’s Childhood: Lessons from an Alcoholic Mother
If somebody is an alcoholic and you want them to change, and you want them to change for you, they're not going to.
Imagine growing up in a home where love and chaos coexist. Bobbie Goldie knows this all too well. In this episode of 'The Memoir', she takes us through her tumultuous childhood with an alcoholic mother. From being kicked out into the harsh Wisconsin winters to dealing with police interventions, Bobbie's early years were anything but easy. Despite the trauma, she never stopped loving her mother, even when it seemed impossible.
Bobbie's journey is not just about the hardships but also about the lessons she learned along the way. It wasn’t until her early 20s that she understood the importance of setting boundaries. She realized that while she couldn't control her mother’s drinking, she could decide how much it would affect her own life. This revelation was a turning point, teaching her that boundaries are essential for self-preservation.
Her story is a raw and honest look at the impact of alcoholism on family dynamics. Bobbie speaks openly about the futility of trying to change an alcoholic loved one. Instead, she emphasizes the need for acceptance—both of the person and the situation. Her reflections are a powerful reminder that setting boundaries is not just an act of self-care but a necessary step in any relationship affected by addiction. Bobbie’s narrative is a blend of heartbreak and resilience.
She shares her wisdom with a candidness that makes you feel like you're sitting across from a trusted friend. Her experiences offer valuable insights for anyone dealing with similar struggles, reminding us that while we can’t choose our family’s actions, we can choose how we respond to them. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with the complexities of loving an alcoholic.
Bobbie’s story is sure to resonate with you, offering both solace and practical advice on navigating such challenging relationships.