Building Bonds: The CARES Approach to Secure Attachment at Any Age
The effects of a secure attachment at any age the person feels lovable and worthy of support.
Ever wondered how to create a safe and loving environment for children of all ages? In this episode of the 'Counselor Toolbox Podcast with DocSnipes', Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes offers a comprehensive guide to nurturing secure attachment. Using the CARES approach—Consistency, Attention, Responsiveness, Empathy, and Solutions—Dr. Snipes breaks down the essential elements needed to foster a sense of security and love in children. She emphasizes the importance of providing a stable environment where kids feel accepted unconditionally.
But it’s not just about being warm and fuzzy; Dr. Snipes also warns against the pitfalls of overly permissive parenting. She encourages parents to model emotional regulation and distress tolerance, crucial skills for children to learn early on. The episode delves into how secure attachment impacts self-efficacy, ambiguity tolerance, and autonomy, making it a must-listen for counselors, coaches, and caregivers alike.
Whether you’re a professional helping clients with addiction and mental health issues or a parent wanting to support your child's development, this episode offers practical, actionable advice that can make a real difference.