Surviving the Storm: Life with Borderline Personality Disorder
Episode Overview
Understand the emotional turmoil of living with someone who has BPD. Learn about Self-Love Deficit Disorder and its impact on relationships. Discover the 'Human Magnet Syndrome' and why opposites attract. Find hope through Ross's Self-Love Recovery program. Get actionable advice on how to reclaim your life and self-love.
It sucks to be an SLD, to have self-love deficit disorder, and to fall in love with someone with borderline personality disorder.
Ross Rosenberg's latest episode of The Self-Love Recovery Podcast, titled 'Escaping the Fire Alive - Surviving Borderline Personality Hell', takes you on an intense journey through the harrowing experience of living with someone who has borderline personality disorder (BPD). With his characteristic warmth and authenticity, Ross shares both his personal encounters and professional insights, making this episode a gripping listen for anyone affected by narcissistic abuse, codependency, or trauma.
Ross paints a vivid picture of the emotional chaos that can ensue when a loved one with BPD reacts to perceived slights. Imagine a small comment spiralling into a volcanic eruption of rage and hurtful actions. Ross knows this all too well from his own life, describing the terror of being caught in such storms. He emphasises the cycle of intense anger followed by genuine remorse, creating a confusing and painful dynamic for those involved.
In this episode, Ross also delves into the concept of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD), which he believes underpins codependency. He explains how those with SLDD often find themselves in relationships with individuals who have BPD, drawn together by what he terms the 'Human Magnet Syndrome'. This cycle of attraction and destruction can leave one feeling trapped, constantly walking on eggshells to avoid triggering another outburst. Ross doesn't just leave you with the grim reality; he offers hope and actionable advice.
He talks about his Self-Love Recovery program, which aims to transform self-love deficit into self-love abundance. Through his books, one-on-one therapy, and new Patreon subscription program, Ross provides multiple avenues for healing and recovery. If you've ever felt like you're in the eye of an emotional hurricane, this episode is a must-listen. It’s not just about surviving but learning how to reclaim your life and love yourself again.
Tune in for a blend of personal stories, professional wisdom, and practical steps towards recovery.