Choosing the Right Partner: Lessons from the Daily Racing Form
If you want to end up in the winner's circle with a relationship, you need to do the pre-race research in order to pick a winner.
Ever thought about picking a partner like choosing a winning horse? In this episode of 'Brandler Bits', therapist Jeffrey M. Brandler shares a fascinating metaphor that might just change your approach to relationships. Drawing from the Daily Racing Form, a publication dedicated to horse racing, Jeffrey suggests that understanding a partner's past performances and family history can help you make better relationship choices. It's all about doing your homework before jumping into a relationship.
Jeffrey highlights how ignoring red flags or hoping for the best often leads to disappointment and regret. Instead, he advises taking a closer look at your partner's behavior, values, and attitudes. By asking the right questions and seeking insights from family, friends, and even co-workers, you can gather valuable information to make an informed decision. This episode isn't just about relationships; it's a lesson in self-awareness and proactive decision-making.
Jeffrey's easy-going style and practical advice make complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable. So, if you're tired of ending up in the wrong relationships, this episode offers a fresh perspective on how to pick a winner and find lasting happiness.