Parenting and Sobriety: A Sober Girl's Honest Reflections
I never realized that NOT setting boundaries would be a problem. I thought by being his 'friend' he wouldn't see me as the enemy or disappointed in me. What I was doing in reality was setting us both up for failure and that was something that I couldn't have.
Parenting is hard enough, but throw in the challenges of sobriety, and it becomes a whole new ball game. In this episode of 'A Sober Girl's Podcast', the host opens up about her personal struggles with parenting while staying sober. She shares candidly about the guilt and shame that haunted her as an addict and how it impacted her ability to set boundaries with her son.
Initially, she thought being his 'friend' would prevent him from feeling disappointed in her, but she soon realized that this approach was doing more harm than good. Her son's first job became a wake-up call, making her see that her coddling had set him back more than she wanted to admit. This episode isn't just about the struggles; it's also about the growth and lessons learned.
The host emphasizes the importance of self-care and how showing up for her children in sobriety has been a transformative journey. She also touches on how essential it is to recognize the impact of addiction on parenting and to seek help and support when needed. One key takeaway is the crucial role of setting boundaries.
By sharing her story, A Sober Girl offers a powerful reminder that while parenting in sobriety isn't easy, it's possible to become a strong parent with the right mindset and support. Whether you're a parent in recovery or someone supporting a loved one through their journey, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt reflections.