Breaking Free: Understanding Codependency in Marriages Affected by Alcoholism
If you are completely removing the consequences, the negative consequences that somebody would normally feel...from the situation, he doesn't really have any.
Picture this: You're trying to help your alcoholic husband, but instead of making things better, you might be making them worse. Julie Sanford, host of 'Married to Addiction', dives into the tricky world of codependency in this eye-opening episode. Julie shares her own journey of realizing that what she thought was help was actually hurting both her and her husband's chances of recovery. Codependency often involves putting others' needs first, ignoring your own emotions, and trying to control situations.
While these actions might feel like love and support, they can prevent your husband from facing the consequences of his addiction. Julie emphasizes that recognizing and changing these behaviors is crucial for both your well-being and his recovery. This episode isn't just about pointing out problems; it's about finding solutions and offering support. Julie provides practical advice on how to step back, allow natural consequences to unfold, and focus on your own mental and emotional health.
If you're a wife dealing with an alcoholic spouse, this episode is a must-listen. It offers a blend of personal stories, expert advice, and a compassionate approach to navigating the complexities of codependency.