Julie Sanford
Julie Sanford
Episode 21: Stay or Go? Five Things to Consider
Episode 21: Stay or Go? Five Things to Consider
Episode 21: Stay or Go? Five Things to Consider
Monday 20th September 2021
Julie Sanford explores five crucial points for wives deciding whether to stay or leave an alcoholic spouse on 'Married to Addiction'.
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Get the buttons here!Stay or Go? Five Crucial Points for Wives of Alcoholics
Ultimately you need to protect yourself and if you are getting to the point where you are not okay or if your children are being really affected in a negative way, things like that.
Marriage can be tough, but when alcohol addiction enters the picture, it becomes even more complicated. In this episode of the 'Married to Addiction' podcast, host Julie Sanford tackles one of the hardest questions wives of alcoholics face: Should you stay or go? Julie acknowledges that everyone's situation is unique, so she doesn't offer a one-size-fits-all answer. Instead, she presents five key factors to consider, providing a thoughtful framework to help you make this life-changing decision.
First, Julie highlights the importance of self-protection. While love and commitment are vital, your safety and well-being, and that of your children, should come first. She reminds listeners that balancing these aspects can be challenging but necessary. Next, she emphasizes that there's no universal answer to whether you should stay or leave. Each woman must determine what is best for her and her family, ideally with wise counsel and support. Julie then talks about the importance of personal happiness.
You can't control your spouse's actions, but you can take charge of your own life. Pursuing your passions and building healthy relationships can bring joy even in tough circumstances. The fourth point Julie makes is about finding peace in the middle ground. Leaving isn't always the best choice, but staying doesn't mean accepting a miserable life. She encourages women to take steps towards a fulfilling life, even if their spouse isn't in recovery yet.
Lastly, Julie reminds listeners that God cares deeply about them as individuals, not just their marriage. While honoring your vows is important, it shouldn't come at the cost of your own well-being and sanity. Seeking divine guidance can lead you to the best decision for your life. This episode is a compassionate guide for wives grappling with their husband's addiction.
Julie's insights offer a blend of practical advice and spiritual wisdom, helping women navigate this difficult journey with grace and strength.