Mary Wagstaff

Stop Drinking and Start Living

Mary Wagstaff

  • Ep. #35 It Starts and Ends With Me w/ Khadi Olagoke of Sober Black Girls Club

Ep. #35 It Starts and Ends With Me w/ Khadi Olagoke of Sober Black Girls Club

Wednesday 22nd July 2020

Khadi Olagoke discusses her path to sobriety, the impact of racism, and supporting Black women in this powerful episode of 'Stop Drinking and Start Living'.
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Khadi Olagoke: Redefining Sobriety for Black Women

Being a Black woman in a patriarchal, racist society can be overwhelming. It is exhausting.
What does it mean to truly find yourself in a world that often overlooks your struggles? In this episode of 'Stop Drinking and Start Living', Mary Wagstaff welcomes Khadi Olagoke, the powerhouse behind Sober Black Girls Club. Khadi's journey from law school standout to sober advocate is nothing short of inspiring. She opens up about the unique challenges Black women face in a society riddled with racism and patriarchy.
These aren't just societal buzzwords for Khadi; they're daily realities that once drove her to alcohol as a coping mechanism. Khadi dives deep into the lack of representation for Black individuals in the sober community and how this gap affects their journey to sobriety. She doesn't just talk about the problem; she's actively working to change it by supporting Black and Brown women in their quest for a joyful, authentic life without alcohol.
Her mantra, 'I am the work…This is the work of Self', resonates throughout the episode, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and inner work in overcoming addiction. But Khadi's story isn't just about personal transformation; it's a call to action for systemic change. She highlights how discrimination permeates every institution, from education to treatment centers, making it even harder for Black people to get the support they need.
This episode isn't just another chat about sobriety; it's a powerful conversation about resilience, representation, and real pleasure. Mary and Khadi also touch on the significance of the four agreements in maintaining sobriety and living a fulfilled life. Whether you're looking for inspiration or practical advice, this episode offers both in spades. Tune in to hear Khadi's compelling story and discover how you too can access your authentic, powerful self.