Breaking Free from Perfectionism: Finding Joy in the Journey
Perfection does not exist. That's why I always say the quote because there's beauty in the struggle.
Ever felt like you're stuck in a loop, waiting for everything to be perfect before you can start living your dreams? In this episode of 'The Unschooled Adulting Podcast', host Courtney Asher tackles the sneaky trap of perfectionism. She candidly shares her personal battles with the need to have everything 'just right' and how it has held her back from pursuing her passions.
Whether it's waiting to get out of debt, owning the perfect camera, or hitting a specific goal, Courtney reveals how these thoughts create a mindset of lack that makes achieving those goals feel impossible. Drawing inspiration from J. Cole's song 'Luv Yourz', Courtney emphasizes that there is no life better than your own, flaws and all. She encourages listeners to embrace the beauty in their struggles and to appreciate the journey rather than just focusing on the destination.
With relatable anecdotes, she discusses how perfectionism can lead to being a people pleaser and living a life that isn't truly authentic. But it's not all doom and gloom. Courtney offers practical advice on how to break free from the chains of perfectionism. She talks about becoming aware of the chaos it creates, letting go of the need to control everything, and learning to appreciate the small victories along the way.
She reminds us that we are worthy of pursuing our passions and living an authentic life, imperfections included. So, if you've ever found yourself paralyzed by the fear of not being perfect, this episode is a must-listen. Courtney's heartfelt insights and practical tips will inspire you to take those first steps towards living a more genuine and fulfilling life. Tune in and start embracing the beauty in your journey today.