Why We Clash with Loved Ones: Insights from Divorce Lawyer Erik Newton
It's this great opportunity to be courageous, and we're so scared about expressing our true selves, our true desires, and also we hold our cards close to our vest with regards to finances and our true intentions, usually for these very abstract reasons during the relationship, in the divorce, that gets mutated, that instinct gets mutated into this intention to remain safe, you know, to protect your assets or your family or your children.
Ever wondered why we often find ourselves at odds with those we love the most? In this episode of the 'Breakup Recovery Podcast', Barbara Stevens chats with divorce lawyer Erik Newton to unravel this puzzling question. Drawing from his extensive experience, Newton sheds light on the common triggers of relationship conflicts and how breakups can serve as a mirror, reflecting our own issues and unresolved emotions.
He emphasizes the necessity of confronting these feelings head-on to prevent carrying emotional baggage into future relationships. One standout point is the importance of transparency about desires and financial matters, even during the tumultuous times of a breakup or divorce. This honesty fosters trust and paves the way for a more amicable resolution. Newton also highlights the value of emotional work—processing uncomfortable emotions to heal and move forward.
This episode is a treasure trove of practical advice and deep reflections, perfect for anyone navigating the rocky terrain of relationships. Tune in for a candid conversation that might just offer the perspective you need to start your healing journey.