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Ego and Self-Will

Monday 4th March 2024

Explore how ego and self-will fuel addiction and learn how service can build self-esteem in this engaging episode of Sober Sense.
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Ego and Self-Will: The Battle Within

Episode Overview

  • Ego and self-will can fuel addictive behaviours.
  • Acts of service, especially when inconvenient, build genuine self-esteem.
  • Humility is crucial in the recovery process.
  • Listening rather than reacting can improve relationships.
  • Continual self-awareness helps maintain sobriety.
You're not being of service unless it's inconvenient to you.
In this episode of the Sober Sense Podcast, hosts Todd, Brent, and Jonathan dive into the complex relationship between ego, self-will, and addiction. The conversation kicks off with a humorous recount of Brent's wedding on Super Bowl Sunday, setting a light-hearted tone before delving into the serious subject matter. The hosts reflect on how their inflated egos and unchecked self-will fuelled their addictive behaviours and distorted their realities.
They share raw, personal anecdotes about their struggles with self-centredness, self-pity, and pride, painting a vivid picture of the chaos that addiction brought into their lives. A pivotal moment in the discussion is when the hosts highlight the transformative power of being of service to others. They argue that genuine acts of service, especially when inconvenient, can help build self-esteem and healthy pride.
Todd recounts a touching story about driving a friend home from the hospital, emphasising the importance of selfless acts in recovery. The hosts also explore the fine line between feeling good about oneself and slipping back into ego-driven behaviour. The episode is peppered with candid reflections on the steps of Alcoholics Anonymous and the value of self-awareness. The hosts stress the importance of humility and the need to continually check one's ego.
They offer practical advice for those new to sobriety, such as the power of simply listening rather than reacting impulsively. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with addiction or supporting someone who is. It combines humour, heartfelt stories, and practical wisdom to shed light on the path to recovery. Tune in to hear how letting go of ego and embracing service can lead to a fulfilling, sober life.