Jennifer Mixon
Jennifer Mixon
Don’t Go Backwards: A new happy ending
Don’t Go Backwards: A new happy ending
Don’t Go Backwards: A new happy ending
Wednesday 19th January 2022
Jennifer Mixon discusses finding new hope post-abuse, focusing on self-worth and creating a healthier future. Listen for insights on moving forward.
25 minutes
Empowering
Informative
Hopeful
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Author:
Jennifer Mixon
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Categories:
Recovery from Trauma
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Healing Relationships
Recovery Reimagined
Creative Recovery Journeys
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Get the buttons here!Building a New Future: Hope Beyond Domestic Abuse
Love shouldn't hurt, and he's a danger to my well-being psychologically when we try, you know, when we try- to have any type of romantic or intimate or sexual relationship with each other, with the state that he's in, it's not good for me.
What happens when the hope for an abuser to change keeps you stuck in a cycle of pain? In this thought-provoking episode of 'Domestic Abuse Recovery Journal', Jennifer Mixon tackles the challenging topic of misplaced hope and its impact on recovery. Jennifer shares her own journey of moving past the dangerous belief that her abuser would transform, and instead finding a new kind of hope—one that focuses on her own healing and well-being.
Jennifer begins by clarifying what domestic abuse truly entails. It's not just about physical harm; it also includes psychological, sexual, and financial abuse. Any behavior that seeks to control or intimidate a partner falls under this grim umbrella. Recognizing these forms is crucial for anyone trying to break free from an abusive relationship. One of the hardest parts for survivors is letting go of the hope that their abuser will change.
Jennifer discusses how this hope can be a double-edged sword, preventing true healing and keeping survivors trapped in a cycle of hurt. She opens up about her own experiences and how she had to shift her focus from hoping for her abuser's change to hoping for her own growth and peace. Leaving an abusive relationship isn't the end; it's the start of a new chapter. Jennifer explores what a new, healthier 'happy ending' can look like.
She emphasizes the importance of self-worth and prioritizing one's own well-being. It's about creating a life where respect and kindness are non-negotiable. Letting go of anger and regret is another significant hurdle. Jennifer talks candidly about her journey to release these emotions and find a sense of respect for her past, which allowed her to move forward. Throughout the episode, the message is clear: love shouldn't hurt, and everyone deserves a life free from abuse.
By fostering self-worth and focusing on personal healing, survivors can indeed write a new, hopeful chapter in their lives. This episode is a beacon for anyone struggling to move past an abusive relationship. It offers practical advice, heartfelt stories, and a reminder that while the road to recovery may be long, it is definitely possible.