Counsellor A.J. Mahari

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

A.J. Mahari

  • Do Borderlines Lack of Empathy?

Do Borderlines Lack of Empathy?

Monday 31st July 2023

A.J. Mahari demystifies empathy in Borderline Personality Disorder, exploring its roots and impact on relationships.
26 minutes
Informative
Empowering
Raw
Thought-provoking
Compassionate

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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Empathy and BPD: Separating Fact from Fiction

Episode Overview

  • Explore the complexities of empathy in Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) relationships
  • Uncover the root causes and unconscious defense mechanisms influencing empathy dynamics
  • Gain expert insight into the impact of adverse childhood experiences on individuals with BPD
  • Understand the necessity for individuals with BPD to seek therapy and embark on a journey of healing and self-discovery
  • Challenge stigmatizing narratives and misconceptions surrounding empathy in BPD
People with BPD have more capacity for empathy, may well feel empathy at different times, maybe not so much for other people, maybe sometimes. A lot of what people with BPD themselves think is a lot of empathy, extra even empathy for others, actually is projective identification of them projecting out their own vulnerabilities in an unconscious way onto, you know, like a cause or animals, etc.
When it comes to Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), empathy is often a hot topic. In this episode, A.J. Mahari, a seasoned Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach, dives into the nuanced world of empathy in individuals with BPD. With over 30 years of experience, Mahari tackles the common misconceptions and stigmas that surround this complex issue. She explains how adverse childhood experiences and identity disturbances contribute to the empathy struggles seen in those with BPD.
Mahari's compassionate approach sheds light on the unconscious defense mechanisms that develop in childhood and become maladaptive in adulthood, affecting relationships deeply. This episode isn't just about understanding BPD; it's about fostering a deeper empathy for those who live with it and those who love them. If you're looking for insights that challenge stigmatizing narratives and offer a path to healing, this episode is a must-listen.