Karilyn Ivers Tracy

Your Partner’s Addiction

Karilyn Ivers Tracy

  • Desire vs. Readiness

Desire vs. Readiness

Monday 31st July 2023

Karilyn Ivers Tracy explains the difference between desire and readiness in addiction, offering insights on supporting your partner while prioritizing your own well-being.
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Your Partner’s Addiction
Author:
Karilyn Ivers Tracy
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Navigating Intimate Relationships
Sobriety Toolkit
Healing Relationships
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
Recovery from Trauma
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Desire vs. Readiness: Understanding Your Partner's Addiction Journey

Episode Overview

  • Differentiating between desire and readiness is crucial when dealing with a partner's addiction
  • Focusing on transforming your own life can have a significant impact on your partner
  • Evaluating the compatibility of desires and finding a 'want match' and 'ready match' is essential
  • Working with a coach can provide invaluable support in navigating through fears and obstacles
  • The Your Partner's Addiction Program offers a supportive environment and resources to assist you on this journey
You are allowed to want what you want when you want it. Whether you decide to stay with your partner or move on, having the tools to feel secure and handle uncertainty is vital.
Have you ever wondered why your partner says they want to change their substance use but never actually does it? Certified Life Coach Karilyn Ivers Tracy dives into this perplexing issue in this episode. She breaks down the difference between wanting to change and being ready to change, a distinction that can make or break your support efforts. Karilyn offers practical advice on how to tune into your own intuition and make decisions that prioritize your emotional well-being.
Rather than pushing your partner before they're ready, she emphasizes the power of transforming your own life first. This episode highlights the importance of evaluating whether your desires align with your partner's readiness for change. Karilyn introduces the concept of finding a partner who is both a 'want match' and a 'ready match', and why taking no for an answer can sometimes be the best path forward.
She also discusses how working with a coach can provide invaluable support, helping you navigate fears and uncertainties. Whether you choose to stay or move on, having the right tools to feel secure and handle uncertainty is crucial. Tune in for a compassionate yet empowering discussion that offers actionable insights for anyone dealing with a partner's addiction.