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Coercive Control! The Impact On Children..

Wednesday 29th December 2021

Christine Cocchiola discusses the hidden impact of coercive control on children and families in this compelling podcast episode.
123 minutes
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Coercive Control and Its Hidden Impact on Children

We have to let go of the shame.
Imagine growing up in a household where every move is monitored, and freedom is a distant dream. In this eye-opening episode of 'The Never Give Up Show!', host Bailey Smith sits down with Christine Cocchiola, a licensed clinical social worker with over 19 years of experience. Christine dives deep into the dark waters of coercive control, a form of abuse that manipulates and dominates victims without leaving physical scars.
She brings to light how this insidious abuse affects not just adults but also children, often leaving them feeling like they're walking on eggshells. Christine’s journey began at 19 when she became a Certified Domestic Violence Sexual Assault Counselor. Her extensive background includes teaching at a Connecticut community college and working towards her Doctorate in Social Work at NYU. Throughout the episode, she shares her profound understanding of intimate partner violence, sexual abuse, trauma, and child neglect.
One striking aspect Christine discusses is how coercive control can manifest in various forms, including financial abuse. She explains how abusers use money as a weapon to trap their victims, forcing them to struggle to maintain their standard of living. 'Financial abuse is just...I could swear right now, but I won't', she notes, highlighting the frustration and helplessness victims often feel. The episode also sheds light on the devastating effects of coercive control on children.
These young victims often endure psychological damage and parental alienation, resulting in a constant state of fear and confusion. Christine emphasizes the critical role of protective parents in supporting these children and breaking the cycle of abuse. Christine’s insights are not just theoretical; they come from years of hands-on experience and a genuine passion for advocating change. She is actively involved in supporting legislation that seeks to recognize coercive control as a form of domestic violence.
Her call to action is clear: educate, support, and never let shame silence the voices of survivors. If you're looking to understand the complex layers of domestic abuse and want to learn how to support those affected, this episode is a must-listen. Christine Cocchiola's expertise offers invaluable guidance and hope for anyone touched by these issues.