Reframing Codependency: The Journey to Self-Love Deficit Disorder
SLDD is both a relationship and an individual condition that can only be resolved by the codependent—or Self-Love Deficient (SLD).
Ever wondered why some people find themselves stuck in unhealthy relationships? In this episode of The Self-Love Recovery Podcast, Ross Rosenberg takes us on a deep dive into the concept of codependency, or as he now calls it, Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD). Ross unpacks the history behind the term 'codependency' and explains why it needed a makeover. By shifting the focus to SLDD, he aims to remove the stigma and bring clarity to a condition that affects many.
Ross describes how attachment trauma from a narcissistic parent can lead to core shame and pathological loneliness. These deep-seated issues often drive individuals to seek solace in addictive behaviors and toxic relationships. But Ross doesn't just leave it at that. He emphasizes that true recovery is about addressing these root causes and building self-love. One of the standout points Ross makes is the difference between change and healing.
While many strive to change their circumstances, real progress comes from healing the underlying wounds. He also highlights the importance of community in this journey, stressing that creating a supportive network is crucial for self-love recovery. This episode is perfect for anyone who feels trapped in a cycle of giving too much and receiving too little, whether in romantic relationships or other significant connections. Ross's compassionate and insightful approach offers hope and practical advice for breaking free from these patterns.
If you're ready to start your journey towards self-love and emotional freedom, this episode is a must-listen.