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Chapter 9 – THE FAMILY AFTERWARD – Second Edition

Friday 31st July 2020

Explore Chapter 9 of 'Alcoholics Anonymous' to understand the impact of sobriety on family dynamics. Narrated by Howard L., this episode is a must-listen.
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Big Book Podcast
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Sobriety Day by Day
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Family Dynamics After Sobriety: Chapter 9 of the Big Book

We have found nothing incompatible between a powerful spiritual experience and a life of sane and happy usefulness.
What happens to a family when the head of the household gets sober? That's the central question in this episode of the Big Book Podcast, where Howard L. reads Chapter 9 of 'Alcoholics Anonymous', republished in the Second Edition in 1955. Originally penned by Bill W. in 1938, this chapter offers a candid look at the ripple effects of alcoholism on family relationships and the complexities that arise even after sobriety is achieved.
While the tone remains hopeful, Chapter 9 doesn't shy away from discussing the ongoing challenges families face. These include lingering consequences from past behaviors, economic difficulties, and the sometimes overwhelming spiritual enthusiasm of a newly sober family member. Bill W. refers to this as “spiritual intoxication”, which can demand compliance from other family members. Howard L.'s narration brings these issues to life, making it clear that sobriety is just the beginning of a long journey for families.
The chapter emphasizes the importance of spiritual progress over material well-being and highlights how a profound spiritual experience can lead to a life of balanced and happy usefulness. Key points discussed include the need to balance spiritual activities with family responsibilities, fostering tolerance and love, and understanding that financial recovery may take time. It's a practical guide for families navigating the new dynamics that sobriety brings.
If you're looking for insights into how alcoholism affects family life and how to manage the changes that come with sobriety, this episode is a must-listen. It’s not just about overcoming addiction; it’s about rebuilding relationships and finding a new normal.