Should You Reach Out to a BPD Ex? Insights from A.J. Mahari
Episode Overview
Initiating conversations with a BPD ex poses significant emotional challenges The episode provides insights into the impact of BPD on relationships and the complexities of managing expectations Listeners gain valuable perspectives on the role of codependency and the importance of self-healing and recovery journeys The challenges of finding appropriate therapy modalities for BPD are discussed, shedding light on the significance of mental health professional awareness The episode offers a comprehensive understanding of emotional motivations and the futility of attempting to change individuals with BPD
You can't fix them. You can't rescue them. You can't make them aware. With all due respect and a lot of compassion, I say to you all, you cannot get them to change to make it work for you. It's not your job.
Ever wondered if reaching out to an ex with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a good idea? In this thought-provoking episode, A.J. Mahari tackles a question many grapple with: 'Can you help a BPD ex who repeatedly fails to communicate?' Drawing from a comment on her YouTube channel, Mahari addresses the emotional rollercoaster and practical challenges involved in trying to reconnect with a BPD ex-partner.
She delves into the complexities of these relationships, shedding light on the often misunderstood motives behind BPD behaviors and the toll it takes on both parties. With her extensive experience as a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach, Mahari offers compassionate advice on managing expectations, dealing with codependency, and understanding the biological and psychological factors at play.
Whether you're considering reaching out to your BPD ex or simply seeking closure, this episode provides a balanced perspective that can help you navigate this emotionally charged territory. Tune in for expert insights and heartfelt guidance that could make all the difference in your journey towards healing.