Understanding Limerence in BPD and NPD Relationships with A.J. Mahari
Limerence is afraid of exposing people with limerence, sorry, are afraid of exposing their undesirable characteristics in the presence of the borderline of the narcissist, which in the long run proves to be what makes the borderline of the narcissist not makes but affects them, to already be more rejecting of you.
Ever felt an intense, almost obsessive longing for someone who doesn't reciprocate your feelings? That's limerence, and it's a common struggle for those in relationships with individuals who have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). In this episode, counselor and trauma recovery coach A.J. Mahari dives deep into the concept of limerence, especially as it affects codependent relationships.
With over 30 years of experience, Mahari brings a wealth of knowledge to the table, explaining the 12 signs and 5 traits of limerence and how they differ from genuine love. She also sheds light on the inner turmoil of cognitive dissonance and the pain of breaking free from unhealthy bonds. If you're grappling with these issues, Mahari's insights could be the lifeline you need to understand your emotions better and start your journey toward healing.