Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination - Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster
BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination - Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster
BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination - Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster
Friday 15th September 2023
Break free from the emotional turmoil of BPD relationships with expert advice from A.J. Mahari. Find healing and self-discovery in this insightful episode.
17 minutes
Empowering
Healing
Informative
Compassionate
Hopeful
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Episode Overview
- Understanding the idealization phase and its impact
- The futility of pursuing closure or rekindling the relationship
- The importance of seeking professional help and self-healing
- Breaking free from the betrayal bond
- Embracing the journey to healing and self-discovery
It's not your fault. You couldn't have said anything different, done anything different. You were set up, not necessarily consciously, by a person with BPD who's looking for the mother that they never had, who never nurtured them, never sued them, never loved them, never helped them to grow to be an individual who has a self.
Imagine being on a rollercoaster that never stops, where emotional highs and lows leave you feeling lost and drained. That's what it's like being in a relationship with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). In this episode, trauma recovery coach A.J. Mahari unpacks the intense dynamics of BPD relationships, from the initial idealization to the painful devaluation and eventual ruination. Mahari, with her three decades of experience, provides a compassionate and insightful look into these tumultuous relationships.
She explains how the cycle of idealization and devaluation can leave you questioning your worth and sanity. But there's hope. Mahari emphasizes the importance of self-healing and breaking free from the betrayal bond that often forms in these relationships. She advises against seeking closure or rekindling the relationship, focusing instead on personal growth and recovery. This episode is a must-listen for anyone caught in the emotional whirlwind of a BPD relationship, offering a lifeline towards understanding, healing, and rediscovering oneself.