Escaping the BPD Relationship Rollercoaster: A Path to Freedom
Episode Overview
Explore the deceptive and manipulative nature of BPD hoovers and reverse hoovers Gain expert insight into the unconscious motivations driving individuals to pursue toxic relationships Empower yourself to break free from the recurring cycles of pain and unfulfillment Prioritise healing and well-being in BPD relationships Discover expert guidance on navigating the complexities of BPD relationships
BPD hoovers are deceptive and manipulative. You can't recapture what you thought you had and how great the initial idealization phase was. Whether the borderline Hoover's you, and when the borderline Hoover's you, it is deceptive and manipulative because it's full of false promises and promises to go to therapy and that things will be different.
Feeling stuck in a cycle of heartbreak with a partner who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? You're not alone. In this episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups', A.J. Mahari, a seasoned Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach, dives into the baffling world of BPD hoovers and reverse hoovers. These are the manipulative tactics used by individuals with BPD to pull you back into the relationship, only to repeat the same painful patterns.
Mahari breaks down why these cycles happen and why they’re so hard to escape. She explains how these 'hoovers' are deceptive and often lead to a never-ending loop of emotional turmoil and unfulfilled promises. If you've ever found yourself hoping for a return to the honeymoon phase, only to be disappointed, this episode is for you. Mahari offers practical advice on how to recognize these patterns and, most importantly, how to break free from them.
By prioritizing your own healing and well-being, you can step off this exhausting rollercoaster and start your journey towards emotional freedom. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with the aftermath of a BPD relationship and seeking a way out of the chaos.