Decoding the Borderline Red Herring Fallacy with A.J. Mahari
The Borderline Red Herring Fallacy is a projection that distracts attention from the real issue, causing confusion and trauma for codependents and those close to people with BPD.
Ever felt like you're chasing shadows in your relationship with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach A.J. Mahari is here to shed light on the elusive Borderline Red Herring Fallacy. This episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups' dives into how this fallacy acts as a smokescreen, diverting attention from the real issues and leaving those involved feeling bewildered and hurt.
Mahari, drawing from her 30 years of experience, explains how this psychological misdirection particularly impacts codependents and others close to individuals with BPD. She breaks down how these red herrings create confusion and emotional turmoil, making it difficult to see the true problems in the relationship. But it's not all about the problem; Mahari also offers practical advice on healing. From inner child work to family-of-origin issues, she provides a roadmap for breaking free from these toxic patterns.
If you're struggling with the aftermath of a BPD relationship, this episode offers valuable insights and steps to start your healing journey.