Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
Borderline Betrayal Its Insidious Impact on You
Borderline Betrayal Its Insidious Impact on You
Borderline Betrayal Its Insidious Impact on You
Friday 14th March 2025
Learn how to heal from the betrayal and emotional turmoil of a BPD relationship with A.J. Mahari's expert guidance.
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
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Episode Overview
- Understand the concept of Borderline Betrayal and its impact.
- Recognise how codependency and childhood wounds contribute to susceptibility.
- Learn why vilifying the person with BPD only prolongs your suffering.
- Focus on breaking the fantasy bond to start your healing journey.
- Gain practical advice on moving forward in a healthier way.
Vilifying the borderline is a trap and it's not a way out.
Ever wondered why you can't stop thinking about that ex with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? In this episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups', A.J. Mahari, a seasoned counsellor and trauma recovery coach, dives into the painful aftermath of relationships with individuals diagnosed with BPD. She explains the concept of 'Borderline Betrayal' and its devastating effects on those who experience it.
If you've been through such a relationship, you might find yourself dealing with cognitive dissonance, self-abandonment, and an overwhelming need to understand what went wrong. A.J. breaks down how codependency and childhood wounds make people more susceptible to these toxic relationships and the betrayal bonds that form. She also addresses the common trap of vilifying the person with BPD, explaining why this only prolongs your suffering.
Instead, she encourages focusing on your healing journey, breaking the fantasy bond, and ultimately moving forward in a healthier way. This episode is packed with empathy, practical advice, and a deep understanding of the complex emotions involved in BPD relationship breakups. Tune in to gain valuable insights and take the first steps towards reclaiming your life.