Healing Generational Wounds: Maternal Mental Health and Attachment
Nobody's fault, not the baby's fault, not the mama's fault.
Ever wondered how your own childhood experiences shape your parenting journey? In this episode of 'The Savvy Shrink', host Andrea Schneider, MSW, LCSW, sits down with Bethany Warren, LCSW, to unpack the intricate connections between attachment wounds and maternal mental health. Bethany, with her 20 years of expertise in women's reproductive and mental health, delves into how secure attachments can positively influence both mother and child.
The conversation kicks off with a deep dive into why attachment is so crucial and the benefits it brings to a child's development. They explore whether it's possible to break free from intergenerational patterns of abuse and neglect, especially as one prepares to become a parent. The discussion touches on brain-wise interventions and how our life experiences carve neural pathways that affect our responses to various situations, including interactions with our children.
Bethany and Andrea also discuss practical steps for promoting secure attachment with your own baby. They highlight the importance of differentiating from your parents and healing your own attachment wounds to foster a healthier relationship with your child. One standout moment is their talk on EMDR therapy, a powerful tool for processing old memories and overcoming feelings of worthlessness or powerlessness. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the overlap between attachment issues and perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMADs).
The episode offers actionable advice on finding a qualified therapist for perinatal mental health and preparing emotionally for motherhood. If you're looking for ways to nurture secure attachments with your child while addressing your own past traumas, this episode is a must-listen.