Margaret Paul PhD
Margaret Paul PhD
Are You Confused About Boundaries in Relationships?
Are You Confused About Boundaries in Relationships?
Are You Confused About Boundaries in Relationships?
Monday 1st July 2024
Dr. Margaret Paul explains the true meaning of boundaries in relationships and how to set them effectively for better self-care and respect.
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Margaret Paul PhD
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Mindfulness & Emotional Wellbeing
Healing Relationships
Spiritual & Personal Growth Journeys
Navigating Intimate Relationships
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Episode Overview
- Boundaries are about self-care, not controlling others.
- You can't control others' actions, but you can control your response.
- Inner bonding work helps in setting effective boundaries.
- Self-respect is crucial for maintaining boundaries.
- Setting boundaries can lead to healthier relationships.
A boundary is not about telling another person what to do; it's about telling another person what you will do in the face of their behaviour
Dr. Margaret Paul dives into the often misunderstood concept of boundaries in relationships in this episode of the Inner Bonding podcast. She begins by explaining that many people confuse boundaries with controlling behaviours. Boundaries are about taking loving care of yourself, not about telling others what to do. Dr. Paul uses real-life examples from her clients to illustrate the difference.
For instance, she describes how one client, Marilee, initially thought setting a boundary meant telling her partner to stop speaking disrespectfully. However, a true boundary would be Marilee deciding to disengage every time her partner spoke to her in that manner. This shift in understanding can be transformative, as it places the power back in your hands. Dr. Paul emphasises that you can't control others' actions, but you can control your response.
The episode also touches on the importance of self-respect and self-love in setting effective boundaries. Dr. Paul discusses how inner bonding work can help you reach a place where you feel good enough about yourself to set and maintain these boundaries. Through anecdotes and practical advice, she shows how setting boundaries can lead to healthier, more respectful relationships.
By the end of the episode, you'll have a clearer understanding of what boundaries are and how to implement them in your own life. So, are you ready to take control of your happiness and well-being by setting proper boundaries?