Alan S.: Balancing SMART Recovery and 12 Steps
His focus in life being with a person with Asperger's is God.
Ever wondered how different recovery programs can complement each other? In this episode of 'The Way Out', Alan S. shares his unique journey of integrating both the 12-Steps and SMART Recovery. Unlike many stories of addiction, Alan's path wasn't marked by early trauma or substance abuse. Instead, he was the quintessential nerd who excelled academically and stayed out of trouble. But as Alan reveals, there are many roads to addiction and just as many paths to recovery.
Alan's story stands out for its focus on ego and service. Growing up, Alan's father noticed his inflated ego, a trait that Alan admits he struggled with throughout his life. It wasn't until his recovery journey that he learned the importance of humility and doing something for someone else every day. This shift in perspective played a crucial role in his sobriety. Another key theme in Alan's story is the power of 'recovering out loud'.
Initially, Alan hid behind anonymity, but he eventually realized that sharing his story could help others who were still struggling. His commitment to being of service to others has been a cornerstone of his recovery. Alan also talks about the humbling experience of being fired as a sponsor, which taught him to stay grounded and not let his ego get in the way.
Additionally, he discusses the challenges of living with Asperger's and how his faith and focus on helping others have helped him overcome these obstacles. Alan's journey is a powerful reminder that recovery is possible for anyone, regardless of their background. By blending the principles of the 12-Steps and SMART Recovery, and focusing on service, Alan has found a new way of life. Tune in to hear his inspiring story.