The Recovery Show
The Recovery Show
Al-Anon after Divorce – 358
Al-Anon after Divorce – 358
Al-Anon after Divorce – 358
Wednesday 12th May 2021
Discover how Al-Anon can help you find peace after divorce in this heartfelt episode. Listen to Spencer and Pat's journey to healing.
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Get the buttons here!Healing After Divorce: Al-Anon's Path to Serenity
We don't have to see ourselves as victims anymore... just because we didn't choose to end the relationship doesn't mean we don't have any choices.
Breaking up is hard enough, but when addiction is part of the equation, it can feel like an uphill battle. In this episode of The Recovery Show, Spencer sits down with Pat to discuss what it’s like to continue working the Al-Anon recovery program after a divorce. Pat opens up about her journey, candidly sharing how both she and her ex-husband played roles in their separation.
She didn’t want her relationship to be the example for her children of what love should look like, and that realization was pivotal in her healing process. Pat and Spencer dive deep into the emotional aftermath of divorce, especially when dealing with an alcoholic or addict. They discuss the importance of detachment with love, a concept that allows individuals to separate their own well-being from the chaos of their partner's addiction.
Pat shares practical tools and solutions that have helped her find peace, even when co-parenting with an alcoholic. Financial insecurity and codependency are also hot topics in this episode. Pat and Spencer talk about how these issues can add layers of stress to an already challenging situation. They explore how prayer and seeking guidance can provide the strength needed to move forward.
Making amends and finding compassion, both for oneself and for the addict, are highlighted as crucial steps in the recovery journey. This episode is a beacon of hope for anyone grappling with the fallout of a breakup involving addiction. It’s a reminder that you don’t have to see yourself as a victim. By embracing the principles of Al-Anon, you can find serenity and happiness, no matter what challenges you face.
If you’re on your own path to recovery and need some guidance, this conversation between Spencer and Pat offers invaluable insights and support.