Why Narcissists Pretend to Be Clueless After Hurting You
Playing dumb becomes a way for the narcissist to protect their self-image by avoiding admitting to any wrongdoing or acknowledging their flaws, especially when others are watching.
Ever wondered why a narcissist acts like they have no idea what you're talking about after they've hurt you? In this episode of 'Heal from Within after Narcissistic Abuse with Danish', host Danish Bashir, a Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Professional and Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist, breaks down the baffling behavior of narcissists who feign ignorance post-abuse. Danish dives into seven specific reasons behind this tactic, from protecting their self-image to dodging accountability.
This isn’t just about playing dumb; it’s a calculated move to manipulate, confuse, and maintain control over their victims. By pretending not to understand the harm they've caused, narcissists create a fog of self-doubt and emotional invalidation, making it harder for victims to seek closure or hold them accountable. This episode sheds light on how these behaviors reinforce the power dynamics in abusive relationships, making it challenging for victims to heal and move forward.
Danish offers practical advice for recognizing these tactics and taking steps towards recovery. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of these manipulative behaviors and start your journey towards healing and empowerment.