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#618 What Is A "Good Asian Son"? - Chris Chou
#618 What Is A "Good Asian Son"? - Chris Chou
#618 What Is A "Good Asian Son"? - Chris Chou
Friday 18th November 2022
Chris Chou discusses toxic parenting, cultural expectations, and finding self-worth on Mental Illness Happy Hour.
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Get the buttons here!Chris Chou: Redefining Identity Amidst High Expectations
I felt unseen for most of my life, right like I could be in the room and everyone will see me.
Ever felt the weight of cultural expectations pressing down on you? Chris Chou, one of Paul Gilmartin’s closest friends and a member of his support group, knows this feeling all too well. In this heartfelt episode of 'Mental Illness Happy Hour', Chris opens up about his journey from moving to the U.S. as a child to grappling with the high demands of his Asian parents.
The conversation dives deep into how toxic parenting shaped his sense of self and led to struggles with anger and intimacy issues. Chris’s story is one of vulnerability and resilience. He candidly discusses how being labeled a 'good Asian son' came with a heavy burden, pushing him towards shame and addiction. But through the support of mental health groups and his own determination, Chris found a way to break free from these expectations and carve out his own identity.
This episode isn't just about the challenges; it's about the triumphs too. Chris shares how embracing vulnerability helped him overcome his struggles and find self-worth. The discussion underscores the importance of prioritizing mental health and self-care, especially when cultural norms seem to dictate otherwise. Whether you're dealing with similar pressures or just curious about the impact of cultural expectations on mental health, Chris’s story offers valuable insights and hope.
Tune in to hear a compelling narrative about breaking free from the past and forging a new path.