Finding Strength Within: Letting Go of Validation as a Breast Cancer Survivor

As breast cancer survivors, we are not only facing the common mental bs that most females do like: I'm not pretty enough, my hair is not thick enough, I'm not young enough. Am I taking care of everybody properly and on and on and on, also dealing with recovering from a near-death life-altering experience and taking all that into consideration, I want you to ask yourself: what the hell do you care if that doctor or your mother or your neighbor thinks you're eating too many cupcakes or you didn't drink enough water or you didn't eat enough vegetables or whatever the hell else for that matter?