Life Lessons from Chickens: Understanding Human Hierarchies
We all just want to do good and most of us are good. But in our comparison to other human beings, we forget how important it is that we're connected.
Shayden J. Bertagnolli, a therapist specializing in anxiety, relationships, and addiction, brings a unique perspective in this episode of 'The Motyv Podcast'. By observing the behavior of his chickens, Shayden uncovers striking parallels between their pecking order and human social structures. Ever wondered why some people seem to dominate while others stay in the background? Shayden's story about his chickens might just offer some surprising insights.
He begins with an amusing yet eye-opening account of how his chickens established their hierarchy. It's not just about the birds, though. Shayden delves into how these observations translate to our own lives, shedding light on the often invisible hierarchies that influence our interactions and self-worth. He emphasizes that understanding these dynamics can help us foster more meaningful connections and avoid the pitfalls of self-objectification. Shayden doesn't shy away from discussing the hard truths.
He talks about the emotional toll of constantly comparing ourselves to others and the importance of setting boundaries with difficult people. His reflections encourage listeners to embrace openness and presence in their relationships, reminding us that, much like chickens, we're all trying to find our place and do good. The episode wraps up with a thought-provoking question: who in your life could you connect with more deeply if you understood the hidden hierarchies at play?
Tune in for a blend of humor, wisdom, and practical advice that will leave you reflecting on your own social dynamics.